Rights
As a person, I have a right to...- be myself;
- refuse requests without feeling selfish;
- be competent and be proud of my accomplishments;
- feel and express anger;
-
ask for affection and help
(may be turned down, but can ask); - be treated as a capable adult;
- be illogical in making decisions;
- make mistakes and be responsible for them;
- change my mind;
- say "I don't agree";
- say "I don't know";
- say "I don't understand";
- offer no reasons of excuses for justifying my behaviour;
- have my opinions given respect;
- have my needs be as important as the needs of others;
-
tell someone what my needs are
(they may not care to do anything about it) - judge my own behaviour, thoughts and emotions, and be their initiation and consequences upon myself;
- judge if I am responsible for finding solutions to other people's problems;
- take pride in my body and to define attractiveness in my own terms;
- grow, learn and change and to value my age and experience, and sometimes to make demands on others.
NOTE: I have a responsibility to acknowledge and respect the rights of others.
Freedoms
The five basic freedoms:- To see and hear what you see and hear, rather than what you should see and hear.
- To know what you know, rather than what you should know.
- To want what you want, rather than what you should want.
- To imagine what you want to imagine, to fee what you want to feel. To express what you want to express.
- To create what you want to create, rather than what you should create.